Crawling back to me

[Schloi]

alright, my girlfreind left me over a month ago, something like five weeks
for the full story, look at Just for Guys

anyway, apperently my mother intercepted a call from her, in the past week or two
in the call it was hinted that she wanted me back
so I don't know what to do
I still feel a little betrayed
but I still love her
what to do
what to do

[X Rogue]

Don't take her back. The longer you keep taking her back, the longer you'll keep getting treated badly.

[Nenuial]

If she left you then don't take her back. She'll just leave again and you deserve someone better than that.

[Theodred]

Suddenly the song "I Will Survive" popped into my head. You should heed its advice. :p

[minah]

Schloi, there are no easy answers! Why did she go? Is it better for the two of you to be apart? Do you want her back?
I did the mistake to reconseliate twice after breaking up with a gye who cheated on me! Twice! (how stupid of me!) Result? I am alone right now and the only thing I mourn about is those 6 months that I spent trying to revive a finished story!

[Realbumpbert]

I recommend you take all advice on this with a grain of salt, since you are the only one in a position to know the details of your situation.

[Schloi]

well,irony abounds
I saw her again today, for the first time in months
and I wasn't even intending to, I was in Driver's Ed
and THERE SHE IS
I almost jumped out of my skin
anyway, it looks like we are going to be back together
which seems good

[Realbumpbert]

If it seems good, I'm happy for you. I hope it works out!

[Arathorn III]

Wow man, I don't know what to say - never been in that position. I know if it were me I'd probably find it impossible to let her just go...I'd be willing to give her a chance. I don't know what happened, but sometimes things can be misunderstood, sometimes things can be forgiven.

And I seriously hope it works out too, and for a very long time. :)

[Ditz]

Pay her a bit of respect though man. I mean dude, you refer to her as "crawling" back to you, and talk about her as if she's a pet. She's a girl, not a dog.

[FlamingoSoHotRightNow]

I do agree with Ditz on this one, you wouldn't want her using the same language with you.

As for giving her another chance, that one is completely up to you. There are times people make mistakes...

[Ditz]

Yeah, I mean any guy who tries that with me is definatly asking for at least several plates thrown at him. Complete with a hot meal.

[Schloi]

when I wrote the title to the thread I was feeling kind of, vengeful
and I was wrong
I can admit that
my current policy is: I love her, but I don't trust her anyware near as much as I did before she dumped me

[Arathorn III]

I think it'll take a while to gain that back. Do you know why she left? (And I'm not asking - I just want to know if you know)

[FlamingoSoHotRightNow]

I understand that feeling vengful thing I guess... I've been there before

[Steadfast Sam]

You know what, Schloi ? Go ahead and use the term 'crawling back to me'. Dang it, SHE dumped YOU, so you have the moral high ground. I've had to crawl back; I think most of us have. But I say, forgive her. In the words of Mr. Miyagi,"To a man with no forgiveness in his heart, living is worse punishment than death". Plus she's bound to be grateful for a while, meaning you can probably pick the movie a couple times now.

[Ditz]

I'm just saying I'd never go back to anyone who acted as if I was a possession rather than my own person.

[minah]

Schloi getting back is good and not trusting here is understundable! I wish you the best!

[Calandriel Aurealin]

Like I said before, congratulations, Schloi. I just hope that you will remain happy with your decision.

[Aragil]

*sigh* I don't want to get involved in this situation.